How can I be there emotionally for my baby when everything is crumbling around me? - altzheimers more condition_symptoms
I have a beautiful child, very healthy, the next week will be 11 months. In March, we lost our health insurance, because the union my husband has no work for him and we have exhausted the profits with them. I applied for the health care of the immediate family and I still do not understand. I spoke with a social worker last week and I have all the requested documents and it is now more than three months since 31 March and still waiting, but he told me that I should be ready for the child. The baby has not become a doctor, have been since the end of March and will soon have more shots. I feel guilty and I feel like a loser. I can not find work now, I take care of my mother, who suffered a stroke is diagnosed and my father was only with the early stages of altzheimers. I Spend half a day to make calls and make appointments for them. My landlord sold the house and will probably move on. My bulimia is back and I'm tired all the time, but still managed to remove the baby.
Saturday, January 16, 2010
Altzheimers More Condition_symptoms How Can I Be There Emotionally For My Baby When Everything Is Crumbling Around Me?
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Fortunately, there is great need to carry on his shoulders!
The story is too long to share, so let's say, I can totally sympathetic with you.
I would say, for you to stay with him to speak at least one friend how you feel. Someone who is on site, you can use the time (even if only on the phone for 20 minutes). Take your time, even if your schedule with 25 hours packed with things to do ... You need to have those few precious minutes to be able to download something you feel, so you can protect yourself against lower than it is to be difficult .. ..
More ideal would be to time with a professional program, but I understand that without insurance, a statement like that probably no option. You can also search for lines that may be available locally ... are usually at the front of the local telephone directory.
Second, you do not treat bulimia. I understand that9; SA response to the tension ... It weakens but physically ... and when we are weak, physically, it is too weak to fight harder emotionally. If you feel healthy and strong, it becomes a little easier, all the challenges that life brings our way to overcome. I strongly encourage you to visit a free clinic, to call a hotline, talk to a doctor who would be willing to work with you (accounting wise) if you are in your current situation ... are selfish self serving for each person, there are a dozen others who really want to help and a way to find you work ... That is what my husband and I have learned (the last year a nightmare for us ... and yet we are !!!). was highly
It might also be able to some information on government support / assistance or local groups who may be able to advice on what will you offer on behalf of her mother and father. Even my ex-roommate, a trained nurse, ER, had an extraordinary time care of his grandmother with Alzheimer's disease ... He is employed full time andof himself ... and will try here, with both parents, the more one's own family are involved disabled. That is too much for one person to manage alone. Again, a phone line or a free clinic will be able to point toward the resources you have available, so that a part of this responsibility can not be lifted from his shoulders ... or be better equipped to face before getting up ...
Finally, you are not a loser. In any case, a woman of extraordinary force they could this position as long as you can say. I know you're tired ... But the relief finally comes. Continuation of the struggle. "Even the pass.
Good luck to you ... My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Your country needs a kick in the baby clinic.
You can find support from their parents by the Mental Health Association, located in the Yellow Pages telephone directory.
Clerk at the table to sit until the end of the paperwork. Perseverance pays off:) You're a loser, you can juggle several things at once, and sometimes we feel that we do not do the best we can, if thingsget fallen.
That is not true. It simply means that you are planning things and to ensure that all need careful. If something needs to be rejected, so make sure you are on a list.
Social Security, respite care and other support there is for his parents. Use. :)
Please help consult with a physician somthing a call!
It makes me angry. I'm from the UK and have free access to health. America is supposedly the most developed country in the world and can be done?
Whatever that is in a very difficult time and need all the support you have now. Talk with your partner or close friends. Ask someone who the baby for one or two hours per week to allow time for the capture of the United Nations calls, etc
Well done to change this concept, is a beautiful child, and you should be very proud.
Have you not afraid to ask for help, not a weakness.
wow do you have your hands full, you must put your health and your baby needs to first see if anyone can help address the parents too much for one person, and if you don 'and then what? You must log on and the first child and if that means put the other does not, unfortunately, maybe a few others with the life-force into the game and care they come to beat up to take her baby to hospital often have free shots for infants and children. You're not a loser at all ... it allows revised and have so many people around you, see you all on what we will operate.
1. Call social services and tell them you want to talk to the supervision of social workers.
2. Do you have siblings or other relatives for help.
3. If you are a U.S. citizen to go to the WIC office.
4. Put his eldest son in rehab for alcohol
5. Get HELLP with her bulimia.
6. Depression makes you very tired.
You're not a loser, has a lot on his plate at once. Remember this saying: ". After me, the first is to help you through the day, and if you are a Christian prayer that will help are .. Normally, if the owner of a home sold to someone else further LET. Ask your landlord these questions, you sell to an individual or another continue to rent the house. If you are interested in a particular newspaper and in a different place. To rent on a monthly basis or lease. If you have a contract, then you are OK. Everything works what else.
You need professional help NOW. They must share some of the problems with parents or brothers and sisters need help. Your husband needs help if it does not work.
Stop, take a deep breath and not everything will go well. It appears that you concentrate on one thing and only one thing. Everything I do, every decision that I think of my son, and how it would affect them. My son comes first in my life and yours should. Concentrating all his energy to his son. All other things are obtained by time. You can take your child to the clinic and because of their recordings as $ 5.00.
You need both. Is there a women's shelter or support group for women who do not to help? Or if you have brothers and sisters, parents share responsibility with them. And of course, is the part where you can test the stability of friendship. Open your close friends, or better yet, talk to your husband about your situation. And if you can not afford professional help, talk with Dr. Phil.
Hello, far beyond anything that you set for the child prior to his emotions. I myself have been off in a very bad time recently with the death of my father, and divorce with a woman for 2 years with a baby we had together. Continue to manage the other 2 for my sons from ex-wife ...
I have done the same with my first Chile, have their shots from behind, but some states and cities free plans for children without doctors. On belemia I can not really tell you what to do, not everyone has a vice, and to me is smoking and drinking, but all I can do, it is clear that at the end of the home without a baby is still on are you and loves you no matter what. ..
They seem to have too much on his plate.
It is necessary to consult a professional now. It is likely that the postpartum depression, which can be very serious for you and your baby.
Stop trying to find his super woman and someone to help you. You must tell your social worker and a fire beneath him. If you do not give career-A-Round, talk to your manager before your situation is serious!
Can you help out her husband's family? Maybe they can help with the child and your living situation?
If it does not help, you will need a few RESPOSIBILITIES they had with their fathers.
There are support groups for mothers of newborns, postpartum depression and eating disorders. You need to take steps to engage with them. There are also support groups for people who care to give parents are. What about your church? Have a religion that could offer some help?
Ask a local search and support. There is no reason you should go runh it all alone!
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